Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Relationships

In reading another post they list the things they are looking for in there future husband. It was a really nice list, but I liked some of the comments too! I never made a list when I was looking for a husband, because at the time I wasn't looking at all. For me I just knew he was the man I was going to marry. The longer we have been married the more our love grows for each other. It is hard to because right now we work opposite shifts and different days off. Some people ask maybe that is why you get a long so well you don't see each other and would you really want to have the same days off? I miss having time with him. We have this bond. I know that God brought us together and there was reason he did. We have a lot in common but we have a lot of difference. He makes me laugh even though his jokes aren't that funny! He is my rock and my strength. He is everything and more than what I ever could ask for from a list. Sometimes when you are looking for love it finds you in the stranges places or even when you aren't looking at all. God guides you even when you don't see. It all comes together. You can't always agree with everything and what you say or he says isn't always right. Relationships are hard at times but you work through the hard things. He completes me and I complete him. Time goes by so fast that it is hard to believe we've been married for going on 27 years. Sometimes it feels like a lifetime and sometimes it feels like it was only yesterday! There is someone for everyone and you just don't know when that someone will be there but they will!

3 comments:

okeydokeyifine said...

And you said you don't know how to get your thoughts out of your head and on paper....Piffle! That was beautiful(and again Smiff and Blow)

EmmaP said...

thanks. just so happens, a couple came into our work today to close on a house. as they left our office and were walking out in the hall of our office building, they had their arms around each other. Then I saw her do it. She moved her hand down to his bum and gave a little sqeeze. Yes, she pinched his bum, but didn't think i saw. They were a cute couple, in the sense that they were cute for each other - not by the worlds "standard" of cuteness. Immediately i thought, "i guess there IS someone for everyone; then there must be hope for me." anyway - very apropos for what i have been thinking/feeling lately.

purplehaze said...

yes Emma there is someone for everyone and when you least expect it he will be there. LOL to the couple how cute!!