Holidays

Even though I would just like to forget about the holidays this year I know in reality I can't, so I was asking my husband what do we do about our son's now ex-girlfriend? He said he didn't know that I should ask our son what he has planned. ( figures he puts the ball in my court!) My son happen to come over that day so I asked him what he had planned and what Rachel had planned? He said he didn't know what she was planning on doing. My question is should we still asked her to come here? Should I still get her something for Christmas? ( I already really planned on still getting her something) It is a very hard time right now. My son did say they were having a freindsgiving. Oh I say is that like picking names and exchanging gifts? No mom Thanksgiving, Friendsgiving! OH I get it!! Well that really nice. Another one of their friends has a Christmas cookie exchange party! Oh that a fun idea! As far as my son goes he is planning on spending the holidays with us. I guess I could still invite Rachel I just don't know if she would feel uncomfortable. We will just see what happens. In the mean time I am going to get ready for my youngest son's birthday. He finally told me some of the things he wanted, but still doesn't know where he wants to go for his special dinner. He has invited four friends. One of the friends is my daughters friend and her sister. We drive them to and from school. My husband said that my daughter and son were fighting over who was going to give them the invitation! Well since it is my son birthday I would think he should give them the invite!! So life marches on and I can just only take it one day at a time.