Thursday, April 30, 2009

I Did NOT Say Or Do That

I did NOT cry when I got a letter from a good friend and she told me she has stage 3 breast cancer. I did NOT feel bad that I hadn't written to her in over a year. I did NOT cry again when she said her hair was falling out and she had her husband shave the rest of it off. I did NOT get on the computer right away and e-mail her back. I did NOT tell her how sorry I was that I hadn't wrote to her for so long. I did NOT go to the store and pick her up a card and I did NOT cry while reading said card.

I did NOT learn something about my daughter when talking to the counselor. I did NOT cry when the counselor was talking about how I was doing with the death of my mom. I did NOT cry knowing my daughter is depressed and grieving for the loss too.

I was NOT sad that I had to go back to work. I did NOT tell my co-workers that I could have taken another week off. I did NOT cry again when telling my co-workers about my friend with breast cancer.

My husband did NOT get his ear pierce. He did NOT ask me what I thought of my old man now. I did NOT say I suppose the next thing is a tattoo.

I did NOT finish my clean up task from my staycation. I did NOT tell my husband to stop putting stuff on the desk that I did NOT just clean up. I did NOT tell my daughter to clean up the dresser that we just brought over.

I am sure there is more things I did NOT say or do but those are the main ones I can think of right now. I know I have taken this from another post, but liked it so much I thought I would give it a try!

2 comments:

EmmaP said...

ah! there...doesnt it feel so much better to get things off your chest in an NOT me kind of way? very theraputic, I say. sorry about the friend... and he got his ear peirced? really? is he having a mid-life crisis?

purplehaze said...

LOL I think he is!! But hey as long as he doesn't cheat on me ( which I know he never would) than it is all good!!